Gratitude List

topic posted Sat, March 19, 2005 - 11:53 AM by  fugitive247
This will surely become one of the longest threads in this Tribe. It would be way cool if each member posts at least a few things for which they are grateful even when just visiting this Tribe to read.

So, what are you grateful for today?

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
1) my recovery
2) my family
3) good health
4) decent home
5) full fridge & pantry
6) coffee
7) laughter...
posted by:
fugitive247
Arkansas
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    Tue, March 29, 2005 - 9:04 PM
    8) enough $$$ to pay the April bills
    9) enough gas to last until Friday
    10) 98 Rock does internet radio
    11) virtual keyboard
    12) home value tripled in 3 years
    13) moving out of this insane state!!!
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      Mon, November 14, 2005 - 9:10 AM
      more things to be grateful for


      warm bed on sick days
      some one to feed me soup
      a tribe like this one
      fingers to type things Im grateful for
      pirate video game
      you lovely people!!!
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    Wed, March 30, 2005 - 9:04 AM
    1. God.
    2. Starbucks Coffee.
    3. My Job.
    4. Death Metal.
    5. More Coffee.
    6. My Sanity.
    7. My Friends and family.
    8. More Coffee.
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      Sat, April 2, 2005 - 9:28 AM
      22) this Tribe is now listed!!!
      23) Saturday- YAY!!!
      24) coffee grinder
      25) coffee maker
      26) GOOD coffee
      27) at least one computer in this house is running today
      28) friend bought me my own dot com
      29) more coffee
      30) new stuff to auction
      31) chocolate
      32) 1st bonsai doing great

      Trying to make this an endless list, so start w/ #34. Don't care if it gets repetitive, but it'll surely include some pretty unique things as it grows!!! ;oD
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        Mon, April 4, 2005 - 11:00 AM
        34. Vacation.
        35. Sleep.
        36. Disturbing The Neighbors.
        37. More Beautiful Coffee.
        38. More Sleep.
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          Wed, April 6, 2005 - 8:16 AM
          39) coffee
          40) Samson (dog I adopted yesterday)
          41) good basic vet tech skills
          42) HP of my own understanding & choice
          43) coffee
          44) happy, healthy family
          45) DAY OFF!!!
          46) virtual keyboard
          47) having fun w/ web design
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            Sun, April 17, 2005 - 10:01 AM
            48) coffee- with ice cream today!!!
            49) a mountain of clean clothes to fold
            50) a working dishwasher
            51) good karma from spiritual living
            52) 3,598 consecutive daily reprives
            53) harmless internet fun and random acts of silliness
            54) today rocks!!!
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              Sat, May 7, 2005 - 10:50 PM
              1. got out of old place-sober
              2. got into new place-sober
              3. invited combative triber in bipolarland to my network of friends. will he accept?
              4. brother gave me a 24 in. t.v.
              5. brother gave me his new lyrics to rework
              6. nephew finally burned me c.d. of songs i downloaded 4 months ago.
              7. moved into new rustic dump w/out boyfriend. just me and maddie. new beginnings.
              8. throughtout move still made 5 out of 7 mtgs.
              9. was invited to join 5 tribes i never heard of this week, signifying personal growth and validation that i am being heard for who i am.
              10. took a risk on a tribal post and paid the written word price, but still held my mud and stood by my convictions, thus in my heart knowing i did the right thing.
              11. glad you found me.
              12. my sobriety.
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                Sun, May 8, 2005 - 11:37 PM
                67) Mother's Day was nice.
                68) At least 2 new volunteers for the next round of RIMC updates
                www.geocities.com/recovery_im_united/
                69) <=== Yeah... ;oD
                70) Day to myself in less than 7 hours.
                71) Pissing off my disease, big time (anniversary soon!)
                72) Home equity available in a couple more days.
                73) Buying 20 acres w/ #72.
                74) Paying off $5.25K credit cards w/ #72.
                75) <=== Stepdad turned this old on May 2nd - YIPPEE!!!
                76) Another 24 hours to celebrate thanks to HPs, everyone & everything!

                Next contributor starts with #77. Object is to see how long this list gets. Viva la gratitude!!!
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                  Thu, May 26, 2005 - 10:13 AM
                  77) 3637 daily reprives so far
                  78) house to myself today
                  79) ice cream in my coffee today
                  80) 20 acres purchased
                  81) Master Fu (my betta) survived Kali (my calico) knocking his home off the table Saturday. It was a close shave!
                  82) found some great Little Rascals DVDs on clearance.
                  83) found the original 1925 release of The Wizard of Oz on DVD- clearance! Rare find, indeed!!!
                  84) my 7 y/o special needs son graduated from K and is being mainstreamed for 1st grade!!!

                  Who's next? Start with #85 and keep on rolling...
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                    Tue, May 31, 2005 - 12:24 AM
                    86. survived the beating i took in the bipolar post
                    87. didn't feed into the beating i took the bipolar post
                    88. recognized the role i played in that post.
                    89. glad i have a more enlightened forum to discuss my illness and sobriety
                    90. glad i stay out of the drama around me day in and out yet am still able to be in the present and even offer solice and advise
                    91. glad my personal growth has enabled me to take criticism and use it as a tool for learning rather than an attack on my character.
                    92. grateful i'm not dead.
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                      Wed, June 1, 2005 - 9:42 PM
                      93) Kids got to have an outing with my mom before her surgery.
                      94) Found some neat treasures while thrifting.
                      95) 9 days until my recovery anniversary (HPs willing! ;oD)
                      96) Tax-free hurricane supply shopping until June 12th.
                      97) Buying ^^ stuff for use in AZ, not FL!!!
                      98) Found a fun site for making neat animated shorts. This is my 1st one, entitled "Curvytude"... mm.dfilm.com/mm2s/mm_route.php
                      99) Today's tornado watch was uneventful.
                      100) <=== I got #100 (nyah-nyah! ;oP)

                      Next contributor starts with #101, thanks!
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                        Thu, June 2, 2005 - 11:32 PM
                        101. another day clean....even serene
                        102.learned many lessons this week and survived
                        103.took a stand to do the right thing
                        104. had an urge to do the wrong thing...stoped in my tracks...realized what my HP's will was and did the right thing!!!
                        105. my 15 yr old got a summer job!
                        106.my 11 yr old is going to camp for a week(bittersweet!!!)
                        107.been doing much spring cleaning
                        108. accepting hurricane season is here and turning it over!!!
                        please con't with#109. thanks lilac lady
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                          Sat, June 11, 2005 - 5:20 PM
                          109) Tenth recovery anniversary TODAY!!!
                          110) Mom's doing super!
                          111) ^^ Docs removed all her cancer!
                          112) Filing AZ deed paperwork on Monday!
                          113) Sammy's getting over his refusal to potty outside in the rain!
                          114) Close to bedtime for my goofies! (insert sigh of relief here)

                          Next contributor starts w/ #115... Run with it!!!
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                            Mon, June 13, 2005 - 1:39 PM
                            115. grateful my friends r doing so well esp.fugi!!!
                            116.i'm ok even though summerjob did not work for 15 yr old
                            117.he is in juvi for domestic violence so he can't abuse us or hit us.....today
                            118. for my home group Back to life that meets mon.,fri., & sat....
                            119. my 12 yr old is home safe from camp
                            120.grateful for the tribes i've joined
                            121.have more time to write my personal recovery story for World Service.org(NA)
                            122.my step dad broke his hip had surgery and at 85 is doing well!!
                            123.grateful for my healthy diet
                            124. grateful for quiet time
                            125.grateful for fugis 10 yr recovery bday congrats
                            please cont with #126
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                              Thu, June 30, 2005 - 12:16 AM
                              127. i graduated from prop.36 6 months early (mandated drug program)
                              128. got a new (used) under the radar car as a sobriety gift from my parents to re-place my probable cause car.
                              129. recently resumed songwriting and recording with my brother.
                              130. have been asked to sponsor.
                              131. am taking my yr. chip on 7/9. (hp willin')
                              132. glad to see the promises working. who whadda thought?
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                                Thu, June 30, 2005 - 11:06 PM
                                Woohoo! Go, Gypsy!!!

                                133. July already?!?
                                134. Got 3 offers on our townhouse- and it ain't even listed yet!
                                135. Won a sweet digital cam for a song on eBay.
                                136. Seeing my HPs' hand in situations almost immediately, which boosts my faith, big time!
                                137. Hubster actually cooked dinner for a change.
                                138. New blog.
                                139. Coffee
                                140. Chocolate
                                141. AIR CONDITIONING!!!
                                142. Staying put this weekend!
                                143. Posting new eBay auctions next week.
                                144. Clean clothes to fold & put away.
                                145. Added a bunch more new volunteers for the 12-Step Recovery Instant Messenger Cooperative.

                                Up next: #146. Who's gonna run with it? {{{hugs}}}
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        Mon, May 30, 2005 - 1:28 PM
        (7) being able to rest when i want to
        (8) having enough assorted yarn and supplies for my craft making
        (9)creativity
        (10) being clean and serene
        (11) tea especially jasmine & green
        (12)hope for the future
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    Mon, May 30, 2005 - 1:22 PM
    i sure try to keep a daily attitude of gratitude even in spite of what i'm lacking....i'm grateful for my spirituality, my recovery, my family,my friends, my home, reliable transportation, tribe.net
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    Tue, June 14, 2005 - 12:40 AM
    My Friends in Recovery
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      Tue, June 14, 2005 - 3:54 AM
      can we get to know you???i'm grateful for my friends in recovery too....they have helped me take off my many masks and get real and vulnerable and learn that i could have real intimacy with my clothes on!!!!what part of the world are you in??? what do you do for your recovery??? love & light lilaclady
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        Sat, July 2, 2005 - 3:03 PM
        I am grateful for
        1. waking up without craving drugs
        2. my friends in and out of the meetings who accept me and my imperfections.
        3. My higher power
        4. every breath I take
        5. the wonderful woman HP sent me that is by my side daily, clean!
        Peace !
        Johnny
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          Sat, July 2, 2005 - 7:13 PM
          welcome johnny to our growing grateful fiends. i think this tribe has so much potential and energy waiting to be tapped and unleashed to be shared and spread to others willing to listen and ready to grow. and to the rest of you others also i haven't met yet also, welcome....it looks like we are starting to grow thanks to chris and donald who brought me in under their wings..... i am grateful.....
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            Thu, July 7, 2005 - 5:17 AM
            153) Johnny & Pam posted! Thanks!!! {{{hugs}}}
            154) Seeing my HPs' hands in things as they happen.
            155) Having faith when others nearby are sweating the small stuff.
            156) Having a realistic, but flexible time schedule for certain goals.
            157) COFFEE!!!
            158) Not much housework to do.
            159) Finally get some "me" time today!

            Next up: #160... Grab it!!!
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              Thu, July 7, 2005 - 4:35 PM
              160. i officially graduated from prop 36 today....6 mo. early!!
              161. tomorrow is my one yr. birthday!
              162. glad i'm not in London and sad for all who are
              163. am songwriting again and actually going places with it
              164. am getting work under the radar
              165. am setting boundaries and sticking to them.
              166. re-evaluating my self worth and glad i have some left to give.
              167. honored my daughter considers me a "hero"
              168. shocked maddie wants to give up her jr high summer dance to watch me take my yr. chip on saturday!

              love you guys..
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                Mon, July 11, 2005 - 2:26 PM
                Grateful being where I want to be and doing what I wish to do and waking up without those "fears" every morning (hangovers was when I was a kid!) at 3AM and seeing only empty bottles and not knowing how to get through those damned 5 hours when the "liquor store" opened and then looking in my pockets and seeing I only had $1.30 left and why? I thought I had a "Twenty" somewhere and tearing the house apart to find it and then scheming to see who I could con out of $5 or $10 today with some sob story but at least I was not a "junkie" I had some "self respect"..Grateful to wake up today just a bit anxious about what I had to do and did it...Grateful since sober works.
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                  Tue, August 2, 2005 - 12:13 PM
                  170) Another 24 hour reprieve.
                  171) Healthy
                  172) Goofies home today.
                  173) NO errands to do today! (yet...)
                  174) POS X-Box power supply didn't kill my sweetie last week!!!
                  175) Got final daycare voucher approved.
                  176) Got notarized deed registration confirmation back from AZ.
                  177) Non-leaky roof.
                  178) Food in pantry & fridge.
                  179) A/C killing the stifling humidity.

                  Next up... #180. Run with it!!!
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                    Sun, August 14, 2005 - 12:57 AM
                    180) Day #3,717
                    181) Unconfirmed wanted pregnancy.
                    182) 7 y/o's first week of mainstreaming went great.
                    183) 4 y/o digging his new light-up sneakers.
                    184) Bills paid.
                    185) Food in fridge & pantry.
                    186) NO errands today!!!
                    187) One day closer to moving to AZ.

                    Next up... #188. Run with it!!!
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                      Sat, August 27, 2005 - 9:50 PM
                      188) HP spared my 4 y/o and I from harm Friday morning when our van skidded and almost went into the drainage ditch on our side of the road. I was in "granny" driving mode already (thank Goddess) because of rain bands from Katrina. In frantically steering to avoid this near disaster, upon recovery, the van was jettisoned into the oncoming lane. (2 lane road) Went front end into the ditch on the other side, stopping with just enough rear wheel-to-pavement contact to gun it in reverse. HP got us out, and just as equally miraculous, no oncoming vehicles hit us.

                      That's my biggie for now. Thanks for letting me share. Next up, #189...
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                        Sat, September 3, 2005 - 7:21 AM
                        I'm gratefull for :
                        1.) Tribe
                        2.) My four year old Son
                        3.) My Apartment
                        4.) Very supportive family
                        • #194 and counting...

                          Sun, September 18, 2005 - 2:31 PM
                          194) Long overdue f2f meeting Friday night- Awesome!!!
                          195) Pizza w/ family @ best friend of 19 years' house afterward.
                          196) Finally got to tend to my greenery for the 1st time in 2 WEEKS.
                          197) Okay so far about my impending b-day: The Big 4-0
                          198) Daily reminders of Why We Were Chosen

                          (short version)
                          members.cox.net/mppowers1/chosen.html

                          (for fellow historians)
                          www.a-1associates.com/AA/Why%...osen.htm

                          199) Feelings are not facts; This too shall pass...
                          200) <--- Nyah-nyah!!! ;oD

                          Next contributor: #201 through ??? are all yours, enjoy!!!
                          • Re: #194 and counting...

                            Tue, October 11, 2005 - 8:17 AM
                            201. that fug is back!!
                            202. I made it off one probation
                            203. don't have to do mandatory reporting on the 2nd probation
                            204. that i have my program that has kept me clean and sober enabling me to accomplish 202-3.
                            205. that my daughter is doing well in jr. high school despite hormonal raging and my space.com
                            206. that i have taken an active role in my home group extending myself by taking on a secretary commitment and candle chick (the hardest) for an evening mtg.
                            207. i have been asked to sponsor a fellow addict w/ similar issues and my sponsor said do it.
                            208. that i risked rejection by volunteering for the Red Cross given my past, age, and mental health history..
                            209. am handling being "on call" w/ the RC for "immediate" deployment. Let go and let my HP handle it.
                            209. Yet the RC calls and keeps asking if i am still interested, so i feel the risk was worth it even if i don't go...in one interview, i told them i'd already been to hell, i could handle it.
                            210. that i don't live in the southern gulf states, or pakistan, iraq, or bali ..
                            211. that i have the ability to feel and the compassion to care for all those suffering.

                            ok #212 belongs to the next grateful dopeless hope fiend.......
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                        Tue, October 25, 2005 - 9:01 PM
                        lets see:
                        the car starts
                        i have warm fuzzy socks
                        my second husband is just so much more a husband
                        my parents are alive
                        my kid is not in jail or using to my knowlege (teenager)
                        my sponsor is my sponsor
                        i have a place to post and share with people like me, unlike before when i had a place to crash with people like me.
                        Today i am grateful for you who are reading this and that i have the ability to write it.
                        sun came up.
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                          Sun, October 30, 2005 - 5:50 PM
                          food
                          sex
                          yerba santa
                          cartoons
                          HALLOWEEEN!!!!
                          • #250 and counting...

                            Mon, October 31, 2005 - 12:32 AM
                            250) Today is a holy day for my family (Samhain)
                            251) 8 days until we leave Bizzarro World (FL)
                            252) This revelation: www.livejournal.com/~fugitiv...7647.html

                            Next DHF, start your addition with #253, thanks!!!
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                              Mon, October 31, 2005 - 11:09 AM
                              253. that fug got the #'s back on track!
                              254. that i am sick and have on line recovery while i get better.
                              255. that my back is feeling better after two wks of hell.
                              256. that i got a chance to see a band that rejuvenated my HP connection.
                              257. that my 12 yr. old is doing well at school, for the most part.!
                              258. that my sponsee is still sober.
                              259. that i am still sober.
                              260. that you all are still sober.
                              love and peace....
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    Sun, November 20, 2005 - 9:12 PM
    .....having found this wharfrat related tribe tonight after looking for weeks.....having had a fairly healthy conversation with my using parents without codependent/empty bs coming up.......Having my late great sponsor up on high kick my ass towards a meeting today....staying out of argumentation...feeling love from god and goddess.......a plan for tomorrow without planning results.......
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      Thu, December 15, 2005 - 11:29 PM
      273) DSL in the Ozarks!!!
      274) Survived the road trip... literally.
      275) One weekly AA and one weekly NA meeting in this one stop light town.
      276) Goofy #1 likes his new school.
      277) Goofy #2 is celebrating his 5th birthday today.
      278) Persuing buying the house we're currently renting.
      279) New sponsor's been clean & sober longer than I've been alive- YOWZA!!!
      280) Friggin' gorillas disguised as a national moving company didn't damage/destroy more than they did.
      281) Smoking sections in most AR restaurants.
      282) Super-sweet next-door neighbor.
      283) New electric space heaters temporarily in lieu of propane service.
      284) Plenty to eat and drink in the 2nd poorest county in AR, where many probably went to bed cold and hungry tonight.
      285) Researching development of a local non-religious, multi-purpose assistance agency. A hand UP- not OUT.

      Next **dHf** starts @ #286... Take it away!!! {{{hugs}}}
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        Fri, December 16, 2005 - 1:54 PM
        286. that fug is back on track...!!!
        287. that fug made the move and is doing well
        288. glad i don't have a hamster that needs a friend, tho i do have a guinea pig that i will gladly ship.
        289. that one of my closest friends just died from AIDS and i didn't drink or use.
        290. that my computer crashed and i managed to fix it and transfer all my documents, praying it won't crash again.
        291. that my daughter broke it off w/ a girlfriend by her own volition after discovering the harsh facts of betrayal and love.
        292. that i didn't drink or use over #291.
        293. grateful i am not 12 yrs. old, but can be a mom to one who is.
        294. that the death of my friend inspired my best songwriting work to date.
        295. that i finally had the strength to set boundaries and keep them w/ my SO.
        296. that my 2nd mammogram was negative and i merely have "fatty breasts".
        297. that my mom is here for two weeks from the east coast and i am happy to see her, for a change.
        298. that despite me getting lost to the airport picking up my mother and w/ #286-297 going on, i didn't drink or use.

        ok you DHF, get it right and start w/ #299. love to all....