This is sure to be an incredibly powerful & inspirational thread. Here members of our Tribe can share and discuss the challenges we've overcome during our recovery. Some of us face ongoing and/or recurrent conditions (health, career, parenting, etc.) It's all relevant here. Want to know how someone got through a particular situation? Ask! If enough people have encountered similar things, dedicated topics can be added. When posting to this topic, please be sure to include your clean date, thanks!
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Clean Date: June 11, 1995
I've stayed clean through...
bipolar disorder & PTSD (ongoing)
homelessness
financial crises
geographic relocation & numerous moves
deaths of loved ones
institutionalizations
a miscarriage
2 emergency C-sections followed by 2 post-op infections
extreme religious predjudice
raising 2 special needs children (ongoing)
2 totaled cars
the 2004 hurricane season
bogus/unfounded DFC reports (several times)
marital issues...
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Clean Date: June 11, 1995
I've stayed clean through...
bipolar disorder & PTSD (ongoing)
homelessness
financial crises
geographic relocation & numerous moves
deaths of loved ones
institutionalizations
a miscarriage
2 emergency C-sections followed by 2 post-op infections
extreme religious predjudice
raising 2 special needs children (ongoing)
2 totaled cars
the 2004 hurricane season
bogus/unfounded DFC reports (several times)
marital issues...
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Re: We've stayed clean through...
Thu, May 19, 2005 - 10:57 PM-my 12 yr. old daughter's 1st pot experience
-her budding sexuality w/ her new girlfriend
-she doen't want me to sleep w/ her anymore (sounds strange, but we have lived alone in one bed for years, and she has always demanded i sleep w/ her), til this month
-finding her googling porn on the internet and lying about it, then coping to it after i told her i read my first book called pussyville usa in 7th grade at school w/ friends and the shop teacher confiscated it.
-she doesn't want to be w/ me, only with her new girl friend holding hands and giggling
-but i infiltrated her teenage tribe (yes i did, she lied anyway, about her age)and she said her hero was her mopm when she wasn't pissed off at her! i cried. that is something to stay sober about!!!!
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Re: We've stayed clean through...
Mon, May 23, 2005 - 10:34 AMi take my one year chip on july 8 and i wish all you guys could be there, esp. you chris. what a wild yr. and i swear w/ out tribe and these forums i couldnt have done it as easily. i can't say i wouldnt have done it, but the ability to open up and share and contribute has made me use my brain and you have allowed me to do that. god bless. so i have stayed clean through a year of being a rookie. almost. one more month and 2 wks.
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Re: We've stayed clean through...
Wed, May 25, 2005 - 8:12 PMlots of the same as you and unresponsive 5 month interferon treatment clean since 12/6/1994 trying to get healthy to try the next treatment infergen for one year or one year & one half!!!!still recovering from Ivan the house still needs tlc the fence and one & one half acres of downed trees need removing and the new season starts june 1st SMILES i keep an attitude of gratitude and continue to do the basics meetings sponsorship steps journaling fellowshiping service traditions concepts ....thanks -
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Re: We've stayed clean through...
Thu, May 26, 2005 - 9:57 AMYup, our collective ES&H is amazing, ain't it? Rather than turn this into an "I'm STAYING clean through..." thread, please check the Blurb-O-Blog on my profile. Most importantly, Mom's staying clean, too. HPs willing, I'll finally hit the double digits on June 11th, and she'll reap 19 big ones in early August. Love you!
{{{hugs}}},
Chris a/k/a fugi
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Re: I've stayed clean through...
Wed, May 9, 2007 - 4:11 AM....and mine! During 24 yrs of continuous sobriety, I have.....
chronologically: started my sobriety by not missing a day of work for the first year. Done one of the smartest things I could with what was left of my brain by also joining EA....then:
Rejoining the 'Dead' culture after 4 yrs. of refusing to feed Garcia's habit, finding the wharf rat community, doing performance art, finding and marrying my partner-9 yrs. of joy.... Shakespere Theater tours, poetry.....
Garcia's death hitting me like my own father....
..and my late wife's health decline, losing my home, her (and, consequently the stepdaughter I helped raise...)....
The glorious rise and crippling fall of my subsequent intentional community, four years of chronic underemployment in the desert, coupled with a wonderful conversion into self-sufficient food/homesteading with the other surviving member of the IC, whom I'm still happy to partner with ten yrs. later....losing the desert homestead and maintaining the goat herd...bedouin-like for five more years-usually with a home for the goats but not for me....losing the goats...having the sire and dame return to my life despite goatnappers two yrs. later ......
.....and new kids born this year! Still living in an apartment as a home base-boarding out the goats to a funny lil psychobilly household...but not -homeless-by-choice...and still working in my vocation of choice with a new ag biz gestating and peeps coming into my life....sometimes quickly sometimes slowly...but always if I work for them.....phew! zawunnerful life.....
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